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	<title>Comments on: Our Stories, Our Labels, Our Lives</title>
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		<title>By: charlie</title>
		<link>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/2005/11/12/our-stories-our-labels/comment-page-1/#comment-7712</link>
		<dc:creator>charlie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2005 19:39:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rachel - yeah. I feel the same way. I've changed labels and habits a lot in the past few years - everything from changing random habits to invoking James Bond and knowing myself to be something sharp and dangerous wrapped up in sophistication. And yet there is something beyond these labels and habits, something that is always there, something bemused by my changes. I have tried to change, only to find the unchanging bits of myself. Rather than attack and hammer this out, I have tried to learn to love it. And that has been the best change I've ever made.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rachel - yeah. I feel the same way. I&#8217;ve changed labels and habits a lot in the past few years - everything from changing random habits to invoking James Bond and knowing myself to be something sharp and dangerous wrapped up in sophistication. And yet there is something beyond these labels and habits, something that is always there, something bemused by my changes. I have tried to change, only to find the unchanging bits of myself. Rather than attack and hammer this out, I have tried to learn to love it. And that has been the best change I&#8217;ve ever made.</p>
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		<title>By: alistair</title>
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		<dc:creator>alistair</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2005 04:03:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>why not try to choose a label for yourself? one that really is cool. a lie that becomes true......we all see little flashes of what could be in our lives, but many just go, "yeah, right" . that`s a way to lie to yourself too. it just turns out to be less than cool. it`s really easy to just roll over and resign yourself to the mundane but dreaming a little,on occasion, does wonders for the soul and moves you a step closer to a different outcome.  can`t win if you don`t buy a ticket................</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>why not try to choose a label for yourself? one that really is cool. a lie that becomes true&#8230;&#8230;we all see little flashes of what could be in our lives, but many just go, &#8220;yeah, right&#8221; . that`s a way to lie to yourself too. it just turns out to be less than cool. it`s really easy to just roll over and resign yourself to the mundane but dreaming a little,on occasion, does wonders for the soul and moves you a step closer to a different outcome.  can`t win if you don`t buy a ticket&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: jackrednur</title>
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		<dc:creator>jackrednur</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Nov 2005 18:05:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know what I love about this site?  Even when you claim that you'll be too busy to update, you update with something both meaningful and resonate.  And I love your little bit of homework at the end there.  Like a Tyler Durden assignment, only more constructive.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know what I love about this site?  Even when you claim that you&#8217;ll be too busy to update, you update with something both meaningful and resonate.  And I love your little bit of homework at the end there.  Like a Tyler Durden assignment, only more constructive.</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Nov 2005 17:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmm... 

There have been pleny of times in my life when I decided to actively change my "label".  When I went to college I told myself, "I'm not going to be that girl I was in high school anymore!"  When I got out of college I tried to forge a new image for myself in the working world.  The thing is... regardless of what changes I made in my life, I always ended up being who I was to begin with.  And as it turned out, that was a good thing, not a bad thing.

I'm all for self-improvement, and for taking steps to change your life.  The things around you can always get better.  But as for those nagging questions you were talking about: &lt;i&gt;"Who am I? What am I? Why? Why! More! More!"&lt;/i&gt; I'm not sure the answers change as easily as our labels do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmm&#8230; </p>
<p>There have been pleny of times in my life when I decided to actively change my &#8220;label&#8221;.  When I went to college I told myself, &#8220;I&#8217;m not going to be that girl I was in high school anymore!&#8221;  When I got out of college I tried to forge a new image for myself in the working world.  The thing is&#8230; regardless of what changes I made in my life, I always ended up being who I was to begin with.  And as it turned out, that was a good thing, not a bad thing.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m all for self-improvement, and for taking steps to change your life.  The things around you can always get better.  But as for those nagging questions you were talking about: <i>&#8220;Who am I? What am I? Why? Why! More! More!&#8221;</i> I&#8217;m not sure the answers change as easily as our labels do.</p>
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		<title>By: landruc</title>
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		<dc:creator>landruc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Nov 2005 15:29:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Struggling.  Definitely struggling.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Struggling.  Definitely struggling.</p>
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		<title>By: Rob</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Nov 2005 09:04:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Use the labels where they're beneficial, to accomplish whatever it is you want to accomplish.

But no need to identify with them.

Just words, after all.

Oooh, that's all pretentious and chaos-magicky, innit?

Sorry.

I tend to think that by default we label things.  People seem to be, naturally, organizing/pattern-id'ing/label making types.

I think most folks would benefit from moving away from labels, as a general - extremely general - rule.  Having done that, like a lot of folks who get into metaphysics do, then you can look back and see where using labels can be advantageous...

My 2 cents and all...

Great post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Use the labels where they&#8217;re beneficial, to accomplish whatever it is you want to accomplish.</p>
<p>But no need to identify with them.</p>
<p>Just words, after all.</p>
<p>Oooh, that&#8217;s all pretentious and chaos-magicky, innit?</p>
<p>Sorry.</p>
<p>I tend to think that by default we label things.  People seem to be, naturally, organizing/pattern-id&#8217;ing/label making types.</p>
<p>I think most folks would benefit from moving away from labels, as a general - extremely general - rule.  Having done that, like a lot of folks who get into metaphysics do, then you can look back and see where using labels can be advantageous&#8230;</p>
<p>My 2 cents and all&#8230;</p>
<p>Great post.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Boucher</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tim Boucher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Nov 2005 06:14:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;i may cut and paste that one in to the alchemy for the braindamaged series at some point. &lt;/blockquote&gt;

Yeah, go wild. I thought of that, and realized I was covering some very similar ground to what you'd done already. Good times.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>i may cut and paste that one in to the alchemy for the braindamaged series at some point. </p></blockquote>
<p>Yeah, go wild. I thought of that, and realized I was covering some very similar ground to what you&#8217;d done already. Good times.</p>
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		<title>By: zacharius</title>
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		<dc:creator>zacharius</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Nov 2005 05:46:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>one often overlooked benefit to labels is that it allows you to sort the myriad inputs of life without becoming psychotic.  if you're able to live without them, then great, but most people can't. 

 your nervous system is takin in billions of bits of information every second, you're consciously aware of like sixteen of them. without labels to keep a handle on the rest of that stuff when you can't focus on them, you'd freak the fuck out.

 but yes, good post. i may cut and paste that one in to the alchemy for the braindamaged series at some point. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>one often overlooked benefit to labels is that it allows you to sort the myriad inputs of life without becoming psychotic.  if you&#8217;re able to live without them, then great, but most people can&#8217;t. </p>
<p> your nervous system is takin in billions of bits of information every second, you&#8217;re consciously aware of like sixteen of them. without labels to keep a handle on the rest of that stuff when you can&#8217;t focus on them, you&#8217;d freak the fuck out.</p>
<p> but yes, good post. i may cut and paste that one in to the alchemy for the braindamaged series at some point.</p>
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		<title>By: Fell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Nov 2005 05:23:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kudos, that was probably one of my favourite of your posts ever. Concise and observant.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kudos, that was probably one of my favourite of your posts ever. Concise and observant.</p>
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