Real Life Acting Tip #8: Stand To Shake
Having spent a lot of time living on both coasts of the United States, I’ve noticed that certain social customs common to one place are not common to others. For some reason, this one seems to be not that popular on the West Coast, especially the Seattle region. It’s a very simple one: when you meet someone for the first time - say someone walks into a room - stand up to greet them and shake their hand while looking them in the eye. It’s so simple, but means so much. It means you’re standing up to meet someone as a man (or woman), with the full power of your being, and that you are honoring them by recognizing and modifying your own comfort level as they enter the room. Simple, yet extremely effective.
BONUS: To remember someone’s name who you’ve just met, make sure you repeat it back to them as soon as they are introduced and try to use it in conversation as soon as you can.




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October 11th, 2007 at 5:21 pm
I agree that this is a good idea, and it is one I practice myself.
My younger brother thought that a person who won’t look him into the eyes upon first introduction isn’t worth knowing. I don’t take such a hard line stance. But I do take notice of who and who doesn’t look me into the eye.
Sure some people are shy and/or distracted sometimes, but it seems to me to be a simple matter of respect.
I’m from the Midwest but grew up primarily in the Southeast, for what that’s worth.