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	<title>Comments on: So Now You&#8217;re A Superhero&#8230;</title>
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		<title>By: Purpose &#38; Service - [tmbchr]â„¢</title>
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		<dc:creator>Purpose &#38; Service - [tmbchr]â„¢</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Nov 2008 17:37:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I guess part of what interests me so much about the idea of service is that it is so intimately tied to the notion of purpose. That is, when you put yourself at the service of other people, your purpose in life becomes crystal clear. No confusion. Focusing on your own well-being is all well and good, but if you focus your efforts on it long enough, chances are you eventually succeed at it. Your lifestyle tends to become somewhat stabilized, comfortable, predictable and protected. And there&#8217;s nothing wrong with that. It forms an excellent foundation upon which you can build afterwards. I believe it was Maslow who said that all your basic needs as an individual must be met first before you can become self-actualized. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I guess part of what interests me so much about the idea of service is that it is so intimately tied to the notion of purpose. That is, when you put yourself at the service of other people, your purpose in life becomes crystal clear. No confusion. Focusing on your own well-being is all well and good, but if you focus your efforts on it long enough, chances are you eventually succeed at it. Your lifestyle tends to become somewhat stabilized, comfortable, predictable and protected. And there&#8217;s nothing wrong with that. It forms an excellent foundation upon which you can build afterwards. I believe it was Maslow who said that all your basic needs as an individual must be met first before you can become self-actualized. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: The Shamanic-Programmer Mind - [tmbchr]â„¢</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Shamanic-Programmer Mind - [tmbchr]â„¢</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2008 00:43:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] See also: so now you&#8217;re a superhero.              Articles With Similar Themes: [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Ten Tips To Safeguard Your Family From Identity Theft: - [tmbchr]â„¢</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ten Tips To Safeguard Your Family From Identity Theft: - [tmbchr]â„¢</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Feb 2008 04:40:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Cut up all your credit cards, burn all your money, destroy all the products you own, remove yourself from everyone you&#8217;ve ever known. Sever your hands and head. Change your DNA. That way you won&#8217;t have any identity to steal. No one will know who you are. You can go anywhere and do anything you choose to. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Cut up all your credit cards, burn all your money, destroy all the products you own, remove yourself from everyone you&#8217;ve ever known. Sever your hands and head. Change your DNA. That way you won&#8217;t have any identity to steal. No one will know who you are. You can go anywhere and do anything you choose to. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Carnival Culture 06: Peace-Keepers - [tmbchr]â„¢</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carnival Culture 06: Peace-Keepers - [tmbchr]â„¢</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jan 2008 09:42:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] As Uncle Ben says to Peter Parker in Spider-Man, &#8220;With great power comes great responsibility.&#8221; Spider-Man, like all super-heroes, is a Man of Power, a sovereign prince. He possesses abilities far in excess of those of mortal man. In a slightly more historical context, the term &#8220;noblesse oblige&#8221; refers to the notion that nobles &#38; notables, Spider-Men and other X-Men, by virtue of the gifts given to them are honor-bound {see also: chivalric code} to share those gifts with others. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] As Uncle Ben says to Peter Parker in Spider-Man, &#8220;With great power comes great responsibility.&#8221; Spider-Man, like all super-heroes, is a Man of Power, a sovereign prince. He possesses abilities far in excess of those of mortal man. In a slightly more historical context, the term &#8220;noblesse oblige&#8221; refers to the notion that nobles &#38; notables, Spider-Men and other X-Men, by virtue of the gifts given to them are honor-bound {see also: chivalric code} to share those gifts with others. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Carnival Culture 05: Le Chevalier - [tmbchr]â„¢</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carnival Culture 05: Le Chevalier - [tmbchr]â„¢</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jan 2008 21:44:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Horses meant mobility and power. A mounted warrior has strength and range which a man on foot will never match. As such, the medieval horseman dedicated his life to mastering that power through the martial arts of the time: riding, fencing, jousting, archery, etc. Strength in arms in a land ruled by the Law of the Jungle translates to social power. The braves who are powerful enough to protect the tribe and to bring down game in the hunt become heros, nobles. These sovereigns, these princes, these chevaliers, become the seeds of families of strength which pass on their knowledge and traditions from generation to generation, as well as lands, territories and tribal hunting grounds which they have conquered from others. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Horses meant mobility and power. A mounted warrior has strength and range which a man on foot will never match. As such, the medieval horseman dedicated his life to mastering that power through the martial arts of the time: riding, fencing, jousting, archery, etc. Strength in arms in a land ruled by the Law of the Jungle translates to social power. The braves who are powerful enough to protect the tribe and to bring down game in the hunt become heros, nobles. These sovereigns, these princes, these chevaliers, become the seeds of families of strength which pass on their knowledge and traditions from generation to generation, as well as lands, territories and tribal hunting grounds which they have conquered from others. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Boucher</title>
		<link>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/2007/11/06/so-now-youre-a-superhero/comment-page-1/#comment-86938</link>
		<dc:creator>Tim Boucher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Nov 2007 01:39:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ted: I like how Ben Franklin wanted our country to be more like turkeys instead of raptors. He was right. Beautiful birds though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ted: I like how Ben Franklin wanted our country to be more like turkeys instead of raptors. He was right. Beautiful birds though.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Boucher</title>
		<link>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/2007/11/06/so-now-youre-a-superhero/comment-page-1/#comment-86924</link>
		<dc:creator>Tim Boucher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2007 22:34:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>http://www.scientology.org/en_US/religion/catechism/pg039.html

&lt;blockquote&gt;If one goes Clear, will he lose his emotions?

No, on the contrary, a Clear is able to use and experience any emotion. Only the painful, reactive, uncontrolled emotions are gone from his life. Clears are very responsive beings. When one is Clear, he is more himself. The only loss is a negative â€” thereactive mind â€” which was preventing the individual from being himself. 

What can you do when you are Clear?

A Clear is able to deal causatively with life rather than react to it. A Clear is rational in that he forms the best possible solutions he can with the data he has and from his own viewpoint. A Clear gets things done and accomplishes more than he could before he became Clear.&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.scientology.org/en_US/religion/catechism/pg039.html" rel="nofollow"></a><a href='http://www.scientology.org/en_US/religion/catechism/pg039.html'>http://www.scientology.org/en_US/religion/catechism/pg039.html</a></p>
<blockquote><p>If one goes Clear, will he lose his emotions?</p>
<p>No, on the contrary, a Clear is able to use and experience any emotion. Only the painful, reactive, uncontrolled emotions are gone from his life. Clears are very responsive beings. When one is Clear, he is more himself. The only loss is a negative â€” thereactive mind â€” which was preventing the individual from being himself. </p>
<p>What can you do when you are Clear?</p>
<p>A Clear is able to deal causatively with life rather than react to it. A Clear is rational in that he forms the best possible solutions he can with the data he has and from his own viewpoint. A Clear gets things done and accomplishes more than he could before he became Clear.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: Tim Boucher</title>
		<link>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/2007/11/06/so-now-youre-a-superhero/comment-page-1/#comment-86923</link>
		<dc:creator>Tim Boucher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2007 22:33:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clear_%28Scientology%29

&lt;blockquote&gt;In Dianetics and Scientology, Clear is stated to be a condition in which a person is free of unwanted influences of past memories, unwanted emotions or painful traumas which are not present in real time. A person in this condition, then referred to as a "Clear", would be a person cleared of those negative influences. Such a person is said to be "at cause over" (in control of) their "mental energy" (their thoughts), and able to think clearly even when faced with the very situation which in earlier times caused them grave difficulty.&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description>
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<blockquote><p>In Dianetics and Scientology, Clear is stated to be a condition in which a person is free of unwanted influences of past memories, unwanted emotions or painful traumas which are not present in real time. A person in this condition, then referred to as a &#8220;Clear&#8221;, would be a person cleared of those negative influences. Such a person is said to be &#8220;at cause over&#8221; (in control of) their &#8220;mental energy&#8221; (their thoughts), and able to think clearly even when faced with the very situation which in earlier times caused them grave difficulty.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: Ted Heistman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ted Heistman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2007 17:11:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wonder if a lot of powerful people figure this stuff out early on and accomplish great things and then maybe begin to lose faith in other people that continually don't seem to get it. So then, they come up with ways to manage and govern the masses of people that aren't self actualizing. 

I also see evidence of the opposite of this, many powerful people start out with a competitive mindset, master themselves, accomplish great things and then, become more altruistic and philanthropic. 

Because I was thinking about this in relation to groups of people like this "Mastermind groups" what the world would look like from theire perspective. I guess you are labeling these types of groups as "Illuminati" in a positive conotation. 

Maybe a lot of these bilderberg and skull and bones types plot to do good, as often as not and only spend some of the time with "world management"  type stuff. 

But as far as everyone having the potential to be a super-hero, I agree. But statistically, its not so likely. 

That's why I am an individualist. Individually anyone can do whatever they want to accomplish.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wonder if a lot of powerful people figure this stuff out early on and accomplish great things and then maybe begin to lose faith in other people that continually don&#8217;t seem to get it. So then, they come up with ways to manage and govern the masses of people that aren&#8217;t self actualizing. </p>
<p>I also see evidence of the opposite of this, many powerful people start out with a competitive mindset, master themselves, accomplish great things and then, become more altruistic and philanthropic. </p>
<p>Because I was thinking about this in relation to groups of people like this &#8220;Mastermind groups&#8221; what the world would look like from theire perspective. I guess you are labeling these types of groups as &#8220;Illuminati&#8221; in a positive conotation. </p>
<p>Maybe a lot of these bilderberg and skull and bones types plot to do good, as often as not and only spend some of the time with &#8220;world management&#8221;  type stuff. </p>
<p>But as far as everyone having the potential to be a super-hero, I agree. But statistically, its not so likely. </p>
<p>That&#8217;s why I am an individualist. Individually anyone can do whatever they want to accomplish.</p>
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		<title>By: Ted Heistman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ted Heistman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2007 16:53:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href="http://www.hawkquest.org/mews/Mature%20Male%20Harris'%20Hawk.jpg" rel="nofollow"&gt;Harris Hawk&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.hawkquest.org/mews/Mature%20Male%20Harris'%20Hawk.jpg" rel="nofollow">Harris Hawk</a></p>
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		<title>By: Ted Heistman</title>
		<link>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/2007/11/06/so-now-youre-a-superhero/comment-page-1/#comment-86908</link>
		<dc:creator>Ted Heistman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2007 16:30:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well anyway 

Harris Hawks are cool. You should check them out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well anyway </p>
<p>Harris Hawks are cool. You should check them out.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Boucher</title>
		<link>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/2007/11/06/so-now-youre-a-superhero/comment-page-1/#comment-86855</link>
		<dc:creator>Tim Boucher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2007 21:19:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;wouldnâ€™t the most altruistic thing to do be to commit suicide?&lt;/blockquote&gt;

By what logic? Sounds retarded to me. The most altruistic thing you can do is commit your entire life to serving others. 

No, meditation had nothing to do with it. Intentional formation of new concrete habits and behaviors had everything to do with it. Meditation never really did shit for me. Probably wasn't doing it right.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>wouldnâ€™t the most altruistic thing to do be to commit suicide?</p></blockquote>
<p>By what logic? Sounds retarded to me. The most altruistic thing you can do is commit your entire life to serving others. </p>
<p>No, meditation had nothing to do with it. Intentional formation of new concrete habits and behaviors had everything to do with it. Meditation never really did shit for me. Probably wasn&#8217;t doing it right.</p>
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		<title>By: jlhart7</title>
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		<dc:creator>jlhart7</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2007 21:07:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>PS: Did medidation have anything to do with it in your personal experience?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>PS: Did medidation have anything to do with it in your personal experience?</p>
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		<title>By: jlhart7</title>
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		<dc:creator>jlhart7</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2007 21:05:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Say Tim: Do you still believe that "Anger Is a Gift"?  

By the way: wouldn't the most altruistic thing to do be to commit suicide? (I'm talking theoretically of course; I'm certainly not altruistic enough in my babylike state to pull any stunt like that -- just a question)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Say Tim: Do you still believe that &#8220;Anger Is a Gift&#8221;?  </p>
<p>By the way: wouldn&#8217;t the most altruistic thing to do be to commit suicide? (I&#8217;m talking theoretically of course; I&#8217;m certainly not altruistic enough in my babylike state to pull any stunt like that &#8212; just a question)</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Boucher</title>
		<link>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/2007/11/06/so-now-youre-a-superhero/comment-page-1/#comment-86842</link>
		<dc:creator>Tim Boucher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2007 06:29:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sent a Rumi book recently to a friend of mine yesterday in fact. 

&lt;blockquote&gt;If they wanted to hear it then why do the charlatans make all the money?

Why is there not a dollar in telling the truth? &lt;/blockquote&gt;

Yeah, without knowing who you're referencing I can't respond adequately. All I know is there are TONS of people telling the truth and making a fantastic living at it. Yeah, some aspects of modern culture hide this stuff, but many do not. There is always value in the truth; money becomes irrelevant at that point.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sent a Rumi book recently to a friend of mine yesterday in fact. </p>
<blockquote><p>If they wanted to hear it then why do the charlatans make all the money?</p>
<p>Why is there not a dollar in telling the truth? </p></blockquote>
<p>Yeah, without knowing who you&#8217;re referencing I can&#8217;t respond adequately. All I know is there are TONS of people telling the truth and making a fantastic living at it. Yeah, some aspects of modern culture hide this stuff, but many do not. There is always value in the truth; money becomes irrelevant at that point.</p>
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		<title>By: Cfraser</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cfraser</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2007 05:42:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting piece.  



&lt;blockquote&gt;One of the most difficult things to disentangle in relationships - especially the deeper they get emotionally - is where I end and you begin.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

You must read Rumi.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting piece.  </p>
<blockquote><p>One of the most difficult things to disentangle in relationships - especially the deeper they get emotionally - is where I end and you begin.</p></blockquote>
<p>You must read Rumi.</p>
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		<title>By: Steve Mills</title>
		<link>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/2007/11/06/so-now-youre-a-superhero/comment-page-1/#comment-86838</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve Mills</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2007 03:35:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If they wanted to hear it then why do the charlatans make all the money?

Why is there not a dollar in telling the truth? 

People don't want to hear it because the mainstream indoctrinates them to reject the message. It is always shown in a negative light. People have been given a mental immunization against freeing themselves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If they wanted to hear it then why do the charlatans make all the money?</p>
<p>Why is there not a dollar in telling the truth? </p>
<p>People don&#8217;t want to hear it because the mainstream indoctrinates them to reject the message. It is always shown in a negative light. People have been given a mental immunization against freeing themselves.</p>
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		<title>By: Brooke</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brooke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2007 01:16:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;the reason you HAVE to beat suffering first is because if you donâ€™t, then you will keep suffering - whether or not you succeed in the things you set out to do.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

right. if you think of a negative/suffering focus as a movement of energy in one direction and a positive/loving focus as a movement of energy in the opposite direction, you have to slow down and stop the momentum of energy flowing in the one direction to free it to move in the opposite. That's just one possible analogy and may not be the way positive/negative emotional energy really works, but it feels right.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>the reason you HAVE to beat suffering first is because if you donâ€™t, then you will keep suffering - whether or not you succeed in the things you set out to do.</p></blockquote>
<p>right. if you think of a negative/suffering focus as a movement of energy in one direction and a positive/loving focus as a movement of energy in the opposite direction, you have to slow down and stop the momentum of energy flowing in the one direction to free it to move in the opposite. That&#8217;s just one possible analogy and may not be the way positive/negative emotional energy really works, but it feels right.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Boucher</title>
		<link>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/2007/11/06/so-now-youre-a-superhero/comment-page-1/#comment-86835</link>
		<dc:creator>Tim Boucher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Nov 2007 23:59:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ted, the reason you HAVE to beat suffering first is because&lt;strong&gt; if you don't, then you will keep suffering&lt;/strong&gt; - whether or not you succeed in the things you set out to do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ted, the reason you HAVE to beat suffering first is because<strong> if you don&#8217;t, then you will keep suffering</strong> - whether or not you succeed in the things you set out to do.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Boucher</title>
		<link>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/2007/11/06/so-now-youre-a-superhero/comment-page-1/#comment-86834</link>
		<dc:creator>Tim Boucher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Nov 2007 23:58:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No, everyone *wants* to hear it (because they desperately need to), but they are just used to being coddled like a bunch of fucking babies, told there's nothing they can do &#038; no path to salvation except through dreaming!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Million_Man_March
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Promise_Keepers

Interesting to see how in other places where these themes arise, they get painted by mainstream media in a very negative light</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, everyone *wants* to hear it (because they desperately need to), but they are just used to being coddled like a bunch of fucking babies, told there&#8217;s nothing they can do &#038; no path to salvation except through dreaming!</p>
<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Million_Man_March" rel="nofollow"></a><a href='http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Million_Man_March'>http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Million_Man_March</a><br />
<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Promise_Keepers" rel="nofollow"></a><a href='http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Promise_Keepers'>http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Promise_Keepers</a></p>
<p>Interesting to see how in other places where these themes arise, they get painted by mainstream media in a very negative light</p>
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		<title>By: Steve Mills</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steve Mills</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Nov 2007 21:44:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No one wants to hear that they need to  move from a position where they are helpless to themselves and others (child like), to a position where they are responsible for themselves, their emotions and their place in the world.

There is a culture of learned helplessness in modern western society that people need to overcome. 

It is so simple.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No one wants to hear that they need to  move from a position where they are helpless to themselves and others (child like), to a position where they are responsible for themselves, their emotions and their place in the world.</p>
<p>There is a culture of learned helplessness in modern western society that people need to overcome. </p>
<p>It is so simple.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Boucher</title>
		<link>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/2007/11/06/so-now-youre-a-superhero/comment-page-1/#comment-86831</link>
		<dc:creator>Tim Boucher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Nov 2007 18:15:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Stop being a child. Grow up and out of your garbage. Be of service to yourself and others.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

HAHAH yeah seriously. That's really all there is to it. No secret esoteric myth whatsoever. No superheroics. But nobody wants to hear that: especially the people who need it most.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Stop being a child. Grow up and out of your garbage. Be of service to yourself and others.</p></blockquote>
<p>HAHAH yeah seriously. That&#8217;s really all there is to it. No secret esoteric myth whatsoever. No superheroics. But nobody wants to hear that: especially the people who need it most.</p>
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		<title>By: Dan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Nov 2007 18:11:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well devised and written.

&lt;blockquote&gt;Trust me: if I could put into into a single word for you, I would&lt;/blockquote&gt;

You &lt;em&gt;could &lt;/em&gt;make the whole thing more concise by stating:

Stop being a child. Grow up and out of your garbage. Be of service to yourself and others.

Lots of people wouldn't take the proper information away from those statements though, would see them as a negative statement about or against themsleves, if they hadn't  already reached the point where they could also make those statements to others without bad intention.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well devised and written.</p>
<blockquote><p>Trust me: if I could put into into a single word for you, I would</p></blockquote>
<p>You <em>could </em>make the whole thing more concise by stating:</p>
<p>Stop being a child. Grow up and out of your garbage. Be of service to yourself and others.</p>
<p>Lots of people wouldn&#8217;t take the proper information away from those statements though, would see them as a negative statement about or against themsleves, if they hadn&#8217;t  already reached the point where they could also make those statements to others without bad intention.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Boucher</title>
		<link>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/2007/11/06/so-now-youre-a-superhero/comment-page-1/#comment-86826</link>
		<dc:creator>Tim Boucher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Nov 2007 18:07:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ted, you can interpret it however you want. It's my life!

I agree about the kung fu on the roof thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ted, you can interpret it however you want. It&#8217;s my life!</p>
<p>I agree about the kung fu on the roof thing.</p>
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		<title>By: Ted Heistman</title>
		<link>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/2007/11/06/so-now-youre-a-superhero/comment-page-1/#comment-86823</link>
		<dc:creator>Ted Heistman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Nov 2007 15:25:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I said it before, I don't think "stopping suffering" suffering makes any sense. 

I think its more about starting things, turning on, activating. Becoming self actualizing. In my mind I trace this change in you to a dream you blogged about that you needed to brush up on your "math skills" then you got on this chess playing kick, that spread out into self mastery, with the finger tricks, proprioception, boxing etc. 

The theme seems to be a decision to make things happen vs. simply reacting to what is happening around you, to you. 

But anyway, great article. 

BTW, about you as a bird person- What do you think of "Harris Hawks?" you should check them out. I was looking at my field guide and thinking if Tim were a bird, what bird would he be? 

Harris hawks are very interesting. The only raptors that hunt co-operatively like a wolf pack and share the kill with each other. Plus they look like you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I said it before, I don&#8217;t think &#8220;stopping suffering&#8221; suffering makes any sense. </p>
<p>I think its more about starting things, turning on, activating. Becoming self actualizing. In my mind I trace this change in you to a dream you blogged about that you needed to brush up on your &#8220;math skills&#8221; then you got on this chess playing kick, that spread out into self mastery, with the finger tricks, proprioception, boxing etc. </p>
<p>The theme seems to be a decision to make things happen vs. simply reacting to what is happening around you, to you. </p>
<p>But anyway, great article. </p>
<p>BTW, about you as a bird person- What do you think of &#8220;Harris Hawks?&#8221; you should check them out. I was looking at my field guide and thinking if Tim were a bird, what bird would he be? </p>
<p>Harris hawks are very interesting. The only raptors that hunt co-operatively like a wolf pack and share the kill with each other. Plus they look like you.</p>
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		<title>By: carlos</title>
		<link>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/2007/11/06/so-now-youre-a-superhero/comment-page-1/#comment-86822</link>
		<dc:creator>carlos</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Nov 2007 13:56:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;em&gt;Practice kung fu on the roof next to the pigeon coop.&lt;/em&gt;

Nice work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Practice kung fu on the roof next to the pigeon coop.</em></p>
<p>Nice work.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Boucher</title>
		<link>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/2007/11/06/so-now-youre-a-superhero/comment-page-1/#comment-86808</link>
		<dc:creator>Tim Boucher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Nov 2007 00:51:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Trust me: if I could put into into a single word for you, I would. This is the most condensed explanation I can come up with:

http://www.timboucher.com/journal/six-strategems/

More directly though, make a list of everything which causes you to suffer. Then look at the decisions you make which are ACTUALLY responsible for your suffering. Then start making better decisions. It's really not rocket surgery. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trust me: if I could put into into a single word for you, I would. This is the most condensed explanation I can come up with:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.timboucher.com/journal/six-strategems/" rel="nofollow"></a><a href='http://www.timboucher.com/journal/six-strategems/'>http://www.timboucher.com/journal/six-strategems/</a></p>
<p>More directly though, make a list of everything which causes you to suffer. Then look at the decisions you make which are ACTUALLY responsible for your suffering. Then start making better decisions. It&#8217;s really not rocket surgery.</p>
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		<title>By: jlhart7</title>
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		<dc:creator>jlhart7</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Nov 2007 00:44:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So how did you do it? No, not that I plan on doing everything you did or anything; I just want to know what exactly you did to get to where you stopped suffering.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So how did you do it? No, not that I plan on doing everything you did or anything; I just want to know what exactly you did to get to where you stopped suffering.</p>
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